In another blog I have written the points how to be a good boyfriend. Now it is time for the girls to know how to be a good girlfriend. The role of a girl and a boy is reciprocated to make a relationship good. The girls also have many loopholes that might affect the bonding between the lovers. I am trying to enumerate the points to make you known how to be the perfect girl for your partner. Let’s start it.
Nobody gets into a relationship where the girls become fully dependent on their partners. On the off chance that she’s had an unpleasant day at work; it’s good to be her comfort by herself. On the other hand if it is seen that you always depend on your boyfriend and force him to help you out, then he would feel suffocated. You should sort out your problem to some extent. There is your partner by your side, but it should be your ultimate place to get the solution. You should never ask your partner to help you always. Be independent and be strong enough to guide even your boyfriend. Your partner could also want your shoulder to feel comfort. If he would see that you are not strong enough by your mind, then the relationship could become boring.
Boys Want the Intelligent Girlfriends
If a boy understands that his girlfriend is dumb then he surely would go back from the relationship. The boys always like to be the partner of intelligent ladies. Therefore you should be intelligent or at least you should not make such dumb talks which could make him annoyed. The days have changed my friend where the girls were not so intelligent and the boys did not have any respect for them. Now you deserve and want respect from your partner and therefore you should be intelligent to some extent.
While we’re on the subject, an incredible sweetheart must be sexually perfect with you. For example, in case you’re into S&M and she’s progressively the “fleecy lingerie type”, then it is a problem. You both should be commensurate to each other — or, in any event, if it’s what you truly crave for, she must have the will to wear a sexy outfit and utilize a whip occasionally. Obviously, this doesn’t suggest that she needs to know all the correct moves straight away; it essentially implies that you and she have an unquestionable fascination toward each other and can convey your cravings verbally or by gesture. It is essential that you satisfy each other in your cozy place.
You Should Know How to be Attracted
I know it is not easy to understand always, but at least you should try to get into the feeling that you are attracted. Many times it is seen that the girls are beautiful, but they are not attracted. It is due to ignore the self-preparation of being attracted. I am not talking or suggesting you to be the Hollywood actresses, but you could become attracted to your partner by justifying your beauty.
You Should Respect Your Partner
It is one of the most important points to be a good girlfriend. If you could deserve respect from your partner, then you should also make him respected. It is the important point that could make you successful in the relationship. Your better half should show esteem for you — else you need to ask why she tries to be with you. It is vice versa. Your partner could also ask you what the important of him in your life. Try to make him proud to be in your life and it could only be possible if he would get respect from you.
Treat Him As A Man
I have written in another article that the man should treat his girlfriend as a lady. It is true similarly for the girls. You should treat your boyfriend as a man. None of the men society would like to have engagement to the lady who insists to take food as she likes or controls the lifestyle. Your partner would never like your consistent force to make him given up the poker nights or other engagements. Try to understand that he is a man and he could have some attraction to the men’s business like you have your own likings. A good girlfriend never stops her partner to do such activities. You could control it, you could guard him from doing any mischief, but do not ever stop him. The men never like to be confined at a small space.
The Boys Do Not Like Nagging
It is true that nagging is the inherent characteristic of the girls, but you should keep it in your mind that nagging without any reason is not accepted always by your partner. Your partner could like your childish behavior but to a tolerable limit. Many girls have the general character to nag without any reason and many times very often which is very annoying to the boys.
Be Friendly With All
It is very important point to be a good girlfriend. Your family and love life could not become completed with all other persons around you. If you accept your partner only and neglect or avoid the family members of him then it draws a bad impact on the relationship. It is equally true for the friends of him. You should be friendly to the family persons and friend of your partner. Remember always that you are not going through a time pass game; rather you are trying to make a relationship and be evolved into it. Do not make your partner solitary from his beloved ones. Better you should be a part of the crowd. Let him start to understand that you are the perfect link for all the people and him.
Make Him Realize He’s the Best
Last but most important point is to make your boyfriend special by conveying the message that he is the best. Never try to tell him that your friends have better boyfriends. Remember he is not an option to you. He is the true man for you. Believe it and make him realized.